My tears roll down my cheeks and crystallize as diamonds around my neck; the banister I grip for support to break my fall turns to gold beneath my fingers; the ceaseless bank alert notifications entirely drown the sound of my cry from my phone
Of course, I think, I must be a happy woman.
My angels love him, the monster. They cling his feet as soon as he returns and I watch with growing dread as he throws one child after another up into the air, Laughing as he catches each one in a fierce embrace.
My heart weeps for them. Not because I think he’ll hurt them but because they think I’m the one to be afraid of. Every time I reprimand them for doing something wrong, they shrink away and go to their father. He walks up to me and whispers, “My darling,” Planting a quick kiss on my lips. I smile at him, so that the children could see, just like he had demanded.
My mother once told me love and money had nothing to do with each other. That was the last thing she said to me. I couldn’t believe that she, like his family members, though I was after his money. I was so hurt by her words that I cut all connections with her and told her she didn’t know what she was talking about. Only recently did I realize that she hadn’t been casting aspersions upon my morals, she had aimed them at him
Spending his money on me and buying me gifts didn’t mean he loved me. Unfortunately, I realized that too late, I’ve sealed my captivity with his kids now. Only because of them, so I remain. I would not have my children live without a father figure or even worse, be taken away from me, which is a possibility since he can afford better lawyers than I can.
All these years, I have borne his marks on my skin like a cheetah does his spots. I had wanted to leave him the first night he hit me, but I forgave him the next day when he brought home the car I mistook for remorse. I had believed that he had felt shame over what he did to me and was trying to make amends but in the years that followed, it became a cycle.
He would hit me and then buy me some expensive thing or the other to obtain my forgiveness. The gifts never swayed me. After I realized that they were not linked to any repentance on his part, they started to feel as burdensome as his abuse. In fact, it began to seem like one of the ways he abused me.
I got used to it but I still never doubted his love for me. I only saw it as one of his shortcomings until I’m sitting in the living room one morning. I have just had my bath and had no make-up on. I hear a knock on my door and look through the peep-hole to find Richard standing at the other side of the door.
In a fit of excitement, I open the door and squeal his name, smiling very widely. But he doesn’t smile back. He stares at me for a while and then trails his fingers lightly around the bruise that had formed on my cheek from the night before.
He pulls me into a deep, long hug and then pulls back and when he pulled back and looked at me, his eyes startle me. I can only vaguely recognize some of the emotions in them. I focus on the one that I, at the moment, realize I have never seen in my own husband’s eyes.
I didn’t know that he still thought of me. He had been my closest friend in University even before I met my husband. But by the time he had come around to confessing his feelings for me, I was already in a relationship with my husband. “It’s too late,” I told him sadly at that time. From then on our friendship had gotten strained. It wasn’t any of our faults. It was simply as a result of the awkwardness that was bound to ensue from rejecting one’s closest friend.
He wipes the single tear that has streamed down my face as I felt the gravity of how much I have missed him over the years, “For how much longer?” he croaks out, and I look down and step away from him, thinking of my children, “It’s too late.” I tell him now.
Adeleke Praise